The Dos and Don’ts of Wedding Guest Dressing Your Style Guide from Elphicks
Wedding season is upon us, and if you’re shopping for a wedding guest outfit or dressing for a day at the races, getting it right matters. At Elphicks Farnham, we stock everything you need from elegant Phase Eight dresses and Hobbs occasionwear to sharp Charles Tyrwhitt suits for the men in the party. Here’s your ultimate guide to dressing the moment and owning the day.
First things first, Check the Dress Code
Before you even think about shopping, check your invite. Some weddings will specify a dress code such as “Black Tie” or “Lounge Suit & Tie,” and it’s important to dress accordingly. If you’re part of the groom’s party, a best man or usher, for example, there’s a strong chance a specific look will be required, so always check with the groom before buying or choosing an outfit. Wedding guest outfits for guests are usually more flexible, but it always pays to read the invitation carefully.
What to avoid as a wedding guest
- Don’t wear white. This one is non-negotiable, white is for the bride. Steer clear of ivory and very pale cream too, just to be safe.
- Don’t ignore the dress code. Check whether there are any colours or prints to avoid. Some couples have a colour palette in mind for their wedding party, and clashing with it can feel awkward.
- Don’t forget to consider the venue. Is it indoors or outdoors? A country barn in October calls for something very different from a city hotel in July. Will you need a coat or jacket? Plan ahead.
What To Do, the Wedding Guest Style That Wins
- Do wear comfortable shoes. You’ll be on your feet for most of the day, standing for the ceremony, dancing in the evening. Choose style and comfort.
- Do bring something for the evening. Temperatures drop, especially at outdoor or marquee weddings. A pashmina, bolero or a little jacket can transform your look while keeping you warm.
- Do invest in the right jacket or cover-up. If you’re in a dress or a jumpsuit, a well-fitted jacket or blazer makes all the difference. It gives you confidence, polish and practicality all in one.
Not sure where to start? Come and see us.
At Elphicks in Farnham, we have everything you need to dress beautifully for wedding season. From stunning Phase Eight and Hobbs occasionwear for women to expertly tailored Charles Tyrwhitt shirts and suits for men, our team is here to help you find the perfect wedding guest outfit, whatever the dress code.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Can I wear trousers to a wedding?
Yes, a well-tailored trouser suit or jumpsuit is a stylish and increasingly popular choice for wedding guests. The key is fit and fabric. Choose something smart and occasion-appropriate, and finish the look with heels or dressy flats.
What should I wear to a Black Tie wedding?
Black Tie means floor-length gowns or very formal midi dresses for women, and a dinner suit or tuxedo for men. Think glamorous and polished. Charles Tyrwhitt at Elphicks Farnham has everything you need for a sharp Black Tie look.
What does “Lounge Suit” mean on a wedding invite?
Lounge Suit is the most common dress code you’ll see on a wedding invite. For men, it means a suit and tie a classic, well-fitted suit in navy, grey or a subtle check works perfectly. For women, it’s smart occasion wear such as a midi dress, skirt suit or tailored jumpsuit.
How do I dress for an outdoor wedding?
Think about the ground (heels and grass don’t mix well!), the weather, and the time of year. A block heel or wedge is a good alternative to a stiletto. Layer up with a smart jacket or wrap, and always have a plan for if the weather turns.
Is it okay to wear a floral print to a wedding?
Florals are a wedding guest classic, especially in spring and summer. Just check there’s no colour clash with the bridal party, and avoid anything too casual or beachy in print. A structured Phase Eight or Hobbs floral midi dress strikes exactly the right note.
Where can I find the perfect wedding guest outfit in Farnham?
Right here at Elphicks! We stock Phase Eight, Hobbs, Charles Tyrwhitt and more, so whether you need a dress, a suit or everything in between, our team is on hand to help you find the perfect wedding guest outfit. Come in and see us in Farnham we’d love to help.